Tracy Goes From People-Pleaser To Confident Dater Who Sets Strong Boundaries
Katia is Set Free From A Painful, Lifelong Pattern Of Dating Unavailable Men
CLAIRE FOUND THE ONE (WHO SUPPORTS HER SUCCESS) AT 56 YEARS OF AGE
I finally broke my unavailable man and unhealthy relationship pattern. I stopped choosing insecure men who hate my success. And I also learned how to tell if a man is worth it or not early – within a few dates – instead of painfully dragging out dead-end situations for months, years, and decades like I used to. This which was absolutely freeing and empowering!
I went from attracting men from the bottom of the barrel to attracting an abundance of high-quality men and began the best dating of chapter of my life at age 56.
This led to finding my guy, Jon, who's the most amazing man I've ever met! He's better than what I could've ever imagined. I'm SO happy! He truly wants to know who I am. He's an emotionally intelligent man. He's interested in what I do and getting to know me deeply. He's consistent and goes out of his way for me. And he even sends me hand-written love letters every week!...I just have to get used to treating so amazingly well.
Claire James, 56, Santa Cruz
CATHY FOUND HER MASCULINE MAN AND GOT THE FAMILY SHE ALWAYS WANTED (BUT DIDN'T THINK WAS POSSIBLE)
My self-worth, self-esteem, and self-confidence used to be so low that I hid the fact that I'm really a mum of two beautiful children to make myself more attractive to men. I also used to pretend that having casual, non-committed relationships was fine when it really wasn't and accepting crumbs was killing me.
I wasted A LOT of time on men who were all wrong for me, men who were emotionally unavailable, and men who didn't ever want to commit.
Orchid helped me own my worth, raise my confidence, and hone effective communication and boundary-setting skills things which shifted things quickly!
I met my husband, got married, and am now expecting a baby - all in less than one year.
Peter and my children are crazy about each other and I got what I always wanted (but didn't think was possible) - an amazing strong, masculine man and a complete family!
Cathy Sadler, 36, Melbourne
SARAH STOPPED SETTLING ATTRACTED HER KING.
Prior to working with Orchid, I wasted time dating guys I wasn't attracted to because I wanted to be "the nice girl."
I also did anything possible to make the bad boys want me and stay.
With Orchid's help, I've stopped being a people-pleaser, raised my worth to match the kind of man I want to attract, and learned necessary dating and relationship skills that broke the unavailable man pattern.
No longer settling for less, I've attracted my amazing King!...Nothing and no one has ever felt as RIGHT as this.
Sarah Reynoso, 40, California
ALLISON FOUND TRUE LOVE OVERSEAS
After a five year relationship ended in a broken proposal and bad breakup, I found myself back in the dating scene with no idea what I was doing. I was going after emotionally unavailable unready for commitment men, spending hours by the phone waiting for texts that never came, and having my heart broken on repeat by men who ghosted me 4-6 weeks into dating.
Fed up, I took a leap of faith (and finances!) and signed up for Orchid's Attract the Right Man program. I had just met a man who I thought had a lot of potential, but I had no confidence in my ability to navigate the early stages of dating.
With Orchid's help, I gracefully communicated my needs, set boundaries, and navigated through a few challenging moments in the early relationship stage which made a pivotal difference for the BETTER.
Orchid's coaching completely changed my mindset towards dating and made me feel empowered and unafraid to ask for what I wanted and hold myself to those standards.
With my cultural background and career goals, I had many a friend over the years who have told me that I was asking for too much, that I would never find a man that ticks all my boxes. Orchid helped me stand for everything I wanted.
Now I'm happy to say that the man I originally mentioned with a lot of potential I am now in a loving committed relationship with, and we are discussing marriage. He's everything I could hope for in a partner. I would say "I can't believe my luck", but I know it wasn't down to luck, it was due to the approach Orchid teaches. It's also helping me build a solid foundation for this new relationship. Thank you Orchid for all you have taught me!!
Allison Singh, 26, Chicago
CATHY BROKE FREE FROM A NARCISSIST AND TOXIC RELATIONSHIP OF MANY YEARS
I finally got off a long-time rollercoaster and freed myself from emotional bondage with a narcissist.
Through this work with men, I’m learning so much about how I can show up in all areas of my life – how I’ve been over-giving and attracting takers my whole life. But not anymore.
Now I can say “NO” to anyone who treats me less than kind, and I can set boundaries when I feel taken advantage of by ANYONE.
I’m feeling truly empowered for the first time in my life at 57 years old and enjoying being a high-value woman free from narcissim.
Cathy Wolfe, 57, New Jersey
TRACY WENT FROM BEING AN ANXIETY-RIDDEN PEOPLE-PLEASER TO BEING A CONFIDENT DATER
I was so anxious and scared about dating after being in a marriage for over a decade.
My whole life, I was unavailable to myself and I attracted unavailable men . I wasn’t authentic, and I never claimed what I really wanted out of a relationship, so I always found myself being miserable.
In only four months of working with Orchid, I’ve come so far in many ways! I know what I want now, and I’m not making any excuses as to why I can’t have that.
My now have strong boundaries, I’m no longer a people-pleaser, and saying NO! isn’t a problem anymore!
Overall, I finally feel comfortable in my own skin, I can now trust myself and my own decision-making, and I no longer feel anxious. Instead, I feel confident that I can handle anything that comes my way, which I’m really happy about!
And, I know that this is working because for the first time in my life, I’m attracting good-quality, reliable men who show up for me and are there for me EMOTIONALLY!
At first, this was scary because I’ve never known it before, but Orchid held my hand every step of the way and helped me to know that this IS what I truly want, what I truly deserve, so now I can happily receive what I’ve always wanted and let all the goodness in!
Tracy Scot, 39, Minnesota